What's Love

If you love some one because you think that he or she is really gorgeous ...then it's not love .. it's ~ Infatuation ~
If you love some one because you think that you shouldn't leave him because others think that you shouldn't ... then it's not love.. it's ~ compromise ~
If you love some one because you think that you cannot live with out his touch ....then it's not love .. it's ~lust~
If you love some one because you have been kissed by him ...then it's not love.. it's ~ inferiority complex~
If you love some one because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings ..then it's not love .. it's ~charity~
If you love some one because you share every thing with him ...then it's not love... it's ~friendship~
...but...
if you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable and you cry for him ... that's ~LOVE~
if you get attracted to there people but stay with him without any regrets...that's ~LOVE~
If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he doesn't want to ...that's ~LOVE~

How did I fall.....

Remember.... when, we never needed each other...
The best of friends like Sister and Brother....
We understood we'd never be, alone...
Those days are gone, now I want you so much...
The night is long and i need your touch...
I don't know what to say,I never meant to feel this way....
Don't wanna be, alone tonight...
What can I do to make you mine...
Falling so hard, so fast this time...
What did I say, what did you do...
How did I fall in love with you....
I hear your voice and i start to tremble....
Brings back the child that I reassemble....I cannot pretend...
That we can still be friends....
Don't wanna be, alone tonight...
What can I do, to make you mine....
Falling so hard, so fast this time....
What did I say, what did you do....
How did I fall in love with you...
Oh! I have to say this right...
And it has to be tonight....
Just need you to know I don't wanna live this life
I don't wanna say goodbye...
With you i wanna spend the rest of my life...
What can I do, to make you mine...
Falling so hard, so fast this time...
What did I say, what did you do...
How did I fall in love with you?
What can I do, to make you mine...
Falling so hard, so fast this time...
Everything's changed, we never knew...
How did I fall...in love...with you...

Some interesting quotes...

When you face your fear, most of the time you will discover that it was not really such a big threat after all...
We all need some form of deeply rooted, powerful motivation -
it empowers us to overcome obstacles so we can live our dreams....

There is no impossibility to him who stands prepared to conquer every hazard. The fearful are the failing....

Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined...

There are four ways, and only four ways, in which we have contact with the world.
We are evaluated and classified by these four contacts:
what we do, how we look, what we say, and how we say it....

The only thing that stands between a man and what he wants from life is often merely the will to try it
and
the faith to believe that it is possible.

Blog, blog and blog.....

I was wondering....

how many people 'd be finding time to write up in a blog and worse, how many 'd bother to post their comment...

As a matter of fact, this fad of blog began late last year when I chanced upon one blog of my colleagues daughter, who wrote cryptic, yet very effective snap shots of her feelings and/or experiences.

Surely, it was an inspiration for me to follow suit but somewhere down the line I settled down and pen my thoughts in my good ol' diary, may be glancing at the pages, once in a while...

Much later, it transpired that one of my best well wishers urged me to restart my flair for writing (though seemingly NOT ORIGINAL - as that person claims !!), thru this medium and I got hooked to it ever since...

Not that, I keep penning what all I feel every now and then, but yes, it gives me a chance to talk to myself although the communication flow is one way - atleast I can read what I felt, time and again, may be expect a comment or two from them!!!

It somehow makes me feel complete...

On being frank!!

Why can’t we handle frankness?
I think it is better to say things on the face than to back talk, but I am always misunderstood. Why?
This is something that is happening to us...
The irony is that none of this so-called frankness is acceptable when it is directed towards the particular individual. When it is from the individual himself, it is just being straightforward, when it is from others, they brand it as arrogance and indifferent.
Accepting even plain facts, when expressed freely and frankly, is very difficult. How, then, can you tolerate my frankness, which more often or not is not just our opinion?
Truly, frankness in itself is not a problem, it is the bluntness with which our frankness is expressed that causes the problem.
We, as humans, are fundamentally creatures of emotions or logic...My frankness may have some logic in it, but the bluntness with which it is communicated emotionally has probably ruffled you to a large extent…
An injured heart incapacitates the comprehending capabilities of the mind….When my words have hurt your tender heart, you seem to care too little for the meaning, those words actually meant to convey.. It isn’t just how you cook, how you serve also makes a difference…
For me, communication achieves its objectives only when all the three components have been taken care of – what I say, how I say and when I say…
A good communication will SERVE a relationship while an improper communication will SEVER the relationship….