Why can’t we handle frankness?
I think it is better to say things on the face than to back talk, but I am always misunderstood. Why?
This is something that is happening to us...
The irony is that none of this so-called frankness is acceptable when it is directed towards the particular individual. When it is from the individual himself, it is just being straightforward, when it is from others, they brand it as arrogance and indifferent.
Accepting even plain facts, when expressed freely and frankly, is very difficult. How, then, can you tolerate my frankness, which more often or not is not just our opinion?
Truly, frankness in itself is not a problem, it is the bluntness with which our frankness is expressed that causes the problem.
We, as humans, are fundamentally creatures of emotions or logic...My frankness may have some logic in it, but the bluntness with which it is communicated emotionally has probably ruffled you to a large extent…
An injured heart incapacitates the comprehending capabilities of the mind….When my words have hurt your tender heart, you seem to care too little for the meaning, those words actually meant to convey.. It isn’t just how you cook, how you serve also makes a difference…
For me, communication achieves its objectives only when all the three components have been taken care of – what I say, how I say and when I say…
A good communication will SERVE a relationship while an improper communication will SEVER the relationship….
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